Some things I don't mind but don't go wild for either?? (Just if you had anything specific in mind???) and wanted to know my opinion...?
- Protection? I mean this seems silly but my basis is, it’s fiction so we can just forgo the whole safe sex stuff right? (Sue me, I’m a hoe for a creampie.) But yeah like, maybe it's just me but when things are super getting into a nice steamy pace and then it shudders to a halt to fumble for a condom? Idk, kinda kills the pace and the mood? If you feel super strongly about including protection and can slip it in smoothly then sure go for it?
- Docking. Hotdogging. Temperature Play, Navel things. Tributes. All soft passes, not my thing.
- Also soft passes on Ear/Nose related shenanigans (excluding air deprivation)
- Soft pass on tickling/laughter during intercourse.
- Lack of enthusiasm for themed like cheating/infidelity (but okay with cuck-related things or poly relations where not everyone is always present)
- Feet things. Stockings/socks. General toe related shenanigans. Not really my vibe unless its as a part of body worship and even then I’m iffy?
- Sweat. I mean, ofc people sweat during sex, and I’m not saying straight up deny bodily functions but… I’d rather people not straight up be out here licking it up or inhaling it? It kinda makes me cringe. Much better things to lick up… lolol.
- Non-consensual slavery (so anything that wasn’t someone losing a bet and being someones slave for X amount of time is a pass!)
- Bloodplay. It’s fine? If it’s within the parameters of my DNW, but I don’t go wild for it? I think blood tastes icky so when characters do things like lick blades? Lick wounds? Ugh. I shudder. I won’t stop you from doing so because it’s not like a hard dnw, just a soft pass. If you really like it, don’t let me stop you!
- Edging. Orgasm Denial. (I know I mention it later with something else but shh hear me out!) are soft passes unless by the end the character is allowed an orgasm? I’m more than fine with it being used, I just feel really?? It feels unfulfilling if someones denied release passed the ending after all the edging or denial build-up? If that makes sense.
- Leather? I mean I don’t see it much but the whole leather get-up-vibe is just? No thanks. That’s gotta be so warm to wear and you’re telling me you’re gonna then?? Bang?? And what? Pass out from heat exhaustion lol. Maybe I’m dramatic but hard pass on the whole leather-bdsm-style getup being involved.
- Strip Tease, Lap Dances, Stripping. These are all fine but I just? Eh. Don’t really connect well with them, I can never really find it in myself to enjoy them?
- Bitching/Studding in an A/O setting. It’s fine? I don’t mind it? But as a main plot point? Meh. If it works for the plot go for it? If you want to make it the central plot… I’d rather something else where possible!!
- Sweat but like, armpits? (ofc people are gonna sweat in sex) Just less vibing with people purposefully sniffing peoples sweat/armpits?
- Shooting off above, nothing like crotch sniffing, underwear sniffing, clothing sniffing (unless Omegaverse scenting related things)